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Learn to make your dreams and visions reality

Question:

Why do we fail to become successful at achieving our dreams or vision?

Answer:

The number one reason we fail to get good results or become successful!! at any particular dream or vision (picture in our mind) or anything we wish to do in life is…lack of knowledge of the dream or vision.

Explanation:

Dreams and visions are true inspiration from God Amighty.

A dream only comes to you while sleeping.

A vision can come during sleep or while awake.

When you see your dream or vision you have to have knowledge and actions to make it happen in your life.

God Amighty has given you a conscious mind to carry out your day to day activities.  “Actions”

God Amighty has given you a subconscious mind to build and store all of the “knowledge” and information you will need to consistently take action to pursue your dreams and visions.

The visions are connected to our subconscious mind.  This is why people say you were day dreaming when you actually were in deep thought.

Solution:

To turn a dream into reality you must acquire knowledge of the activities necessary to achieve your dream.

Knowledge creates action! When you know what to do it makes your actions easy. When you don’t know what to do you will not do any actions.

(This is one of the reasons a man may be referred to as a slave because he doesn’t know what to do for himself, the master must instruct him every step until the master’s dream or will is carried out)!

It’s called ignorance, not giving up but never getting started because you have no knowledge or direction.

Your subconscious mind is empty. There is no knowledge stored there and no directions. As a result…

You are unable to do any action!

The solution starts with acquiring knowledge related to your dream or vision.  A great way to fill you empty subconscious mind is to acquire knowledge or information from all two sources.

1. Book knowledge

2. Practice or practical knowledge(learning hands on from someone who knows and mastered the actions).

Start out right here, right now with ebooks.  Check out our ebook store here.  They are very inexpensive giving a brief overview of the subject. Perfect for building foundational knowledge to fill the subconscious mind.

Next is to acquire practical knowledge by watching someone demonstrate and then doing the actions yourself until you get as good as the instructor.

A good source to start here and now is videos if a real person is out of reach.  Check out our video sites here. (Video coming soon)

Practice make perfect so you must develop consistently and once you get started you can never quit until you gain mastery.

You are allowed to get frustrated and take breaks but never give up on your dreams or visions. Otherwise you will continue to just dream!!

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Life Coaching for Men, Women and children

Life coaching for Men, Women and children- 3 steps to find your life’s treasure

Why is Life Coaching important?

Life coaching is very important to all Men, women and children and all walks of life.  Everyone who was given a life to live in this world has a beautiful treasure to discover or misery and stress, whatever path they may choose.  We all must realise that our treasure is within ourselves, waiting to be discovered.  This is why we need coaching or a guide in life to help us to realize the great power within us.  We do not always have the answer or even know why things happen the way they happen.  Sometimes others are able to see where we can not.  An example is someone else can style your hair easier because they can see and reach all areas of your head more easier and efficient than you.

The day you were born is is a very important day, and the day you realized WHY you were born is an extremely important day.  If man did not need a coaching in life, who would help guide him through the seen and the unseen adventures of life? Why would God Almighty send to us HIS most truthful words, attributes, prophets, and messengers, as examples? Why do we do the things we do? Why do we meet so many different people?  Why do differnt people affect us differently?  God Almighty is sending us inspiration! Guiding our every move!  Its His plan not ours, so we have to find our role in His plan.  And you most likely could use some help for the journey.

Who is Life Coachng For?

Life coaching is for the one who believes that he was put in this world for a reason.  The one who reflects upon the creation and all other created things.  The one who thought he had it all figured out and then realize he doesnt.  The one who is going throught hardship after hardship and wondering why? The woman who is having a hard time finding happiness.  The child that wasn’t fortunate enough to have parents?  The married couple who can’t get along, …always arguing, fighting over money or financial issues, lack trust between them?  

What does Life Coaching Consist of? 

Life coaching is about receiving and giving help, motivation, encouragement, information, conversation, time and effort to each other.  This giving and receiving is a means of growth and guidance from God Almighty, the ONE who has given you life.  In order for anyone to accomplish this lifelong task we must all learn, learn, learn, keep learning, and act on that learning!!!  Okay! Learn what?  We must learn about God Amighty, learn about all the creation, in order to learn or find out who we are and why we are here.  God informs us that He alone gives us intelligence, speech, the ability to communicate, guidance and completely sustains our lives every single day.  The way HE accomplishes these things are done through our interaction with others.  Everyone of us has a gift, a purpose or contribution for this life tied to our neck or our person.  Something that we are good at, passionate about, and we love to do, and this brings us joy, pleasure, happiness, and fulfillment to our hearts.  So in short life coaching is a means for us to find our purpose, our gift, or contribution in our life. When you find it, it’s like finding a treasure!  

How can I benefit from life coaching?

Your mindset will change! Your focus will become clear! The world will seem like its getting smaller! You will begin to learn more, realize more as if you have just been awaiken or perhaps found yourself.  Everything will start to make sense!  You will become very wealthy, strong, mature, beautiful, kind, and grateful.  Then you will want to share that gift with the wolrd, everyone you can find?  All of the problems that you previously sufferred from would shrink.  You will be fast to forgive and forget because of your new reality, your new treasure, your new mindset, your new understanding.  When you begin living your purpose you begin to see that your value is in helping people! You will do it effortlessly and would not care about any money or finantial gain, although you will become very wealthy!!  God says that He rewards man for his efforts and that good deeds are better in HIS sight and more lasting and a means of hope when you return to HIM. than wealth and a following of men!!  So you will be compesated with so much more than money in so many different ways!  Money is not sufficient to pay any of us what we deserve! 

Three execises you can implement to help you find your life’s treasure or powerful destiny (qadr). 

STEP 1.  Get a piece of paper and pad and write down the answer to the following question. Note this step may take a day, a week, a month, or even years depending on your present life situation.

Question:  If you had to do something for 8 – 10 hours per day, five (5) days a week, and you know you are not receiving any money, or payment, What would you do?

Note: This lesson is designed to help you find out what you are truly passionate about.  If you can answer this question sincerely then you are one step closer to achieving your treasure.     

STEP 2. Once you have found out what you are passionate about, focus more attention on it.

Acknowledge your strengths, and weaknesses, work on your strength, hone your passion to create purpose.  Then determine how you can utilize your talent, your gift, and passion to help people close to you, a distance from you, and the rest of the world at large.  TEST IT OUT every chance you get.  

STEP 3. Apply your Paasion, apply that special gift and God given talent in your life for the benefit of others.  As you apply your special gifts you will notice many people coming to you for your help, you will feel needed, special, and happy that your talent makes a different in other peoples live.  When you realize this you are living your purpose!  You are following God’s inspiration! You are confirming God’s truthful word, ” Spend out of the sustenance which God has given you, for your love of HIM.” If you love God Almighty, and realize what he has gifted you with, then spend it on others (helping others).  This earns God’s pleasure and that is our goal in this life!!

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SELF IMPROVEMENT PREPARATION EXERCISES

“What Really Makes You Tick?”

10 questions you should ask to yourself: a preparation to self-improvement

Be all you can be, but it’s not always in the Army. I often see myself as somewhat contented with my life the way things are, but of course it’s hard to think of anything else when where are real issues to be discussed.

Still I aspire for something deeper and more meaningful.

So we’re all pelted with problems. Honestly it shouldn’t even bother or even hinder us to becoming all we ought to be. Aspirations as kids should continue to live within us, even though it would be short-lived or as long as we could hold on to the dream. They say you can’t teach an old dog new tricksÖ or can they?

1. What do I really want?
The question of the ages. So many things you want to do with your life and so little time to even go about during the day.

Find something that you are good at can help realize that small step towards improvement. Diligence is the key to know that it is worth it.

2. Should I really change?
Today’s generation has taken another level of redefining ‘self’, or at least that’s what the kids are saying. Having an army of teenage nieces and nephews has taught me that there are far worse things that they could have had than acne or maybe even promiscuity. So how does that fit into your lifestyle?

If history has taught us one thing, it’s the life that we have gone through. Try to see if partying Seventies style wouldn’t appeal to the younger generation, but dancing is part of partying. Watch them applaud after showing them how to really dance than break their bones in break-dancing.

3. What’s the bright side in all of this?
With so much is happening around us there seem to be no room for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. We can still see it as something positive without undergoing so much scrutiny. And if it’s a train at the end of the tunnel, take it for a ride and see what makes the world go round!

4. Am I comfortable with what I’m doing?
There’s always the easy way and the right way when it comes to deciding what goes with which shoes, or purse, shirt and whatnot. It doesn’t take a genius to see yourself as someone unique, or else we’ll all be equally the same in everything we do. Variety brings in very interesting and exciting questions to be experimented.

5. Have I done enough for myself?
Have you, or is there something more you want to do? Discontentment in every aspect can be dangerous in large doses, but in small amounts you’ll be able to see and do stuff you could never imagine doing.

6. Am I happy at where I am today?
It’s an unfair question so let it be an answer! You love being a good and loving mom or dad to your kids, then take it up a notch! Your kids will love you forever. The same goes with everyday life!

7. Am I appealing to the opposite sex?
So maybe I don’t have an answer to that, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try it, though. Whether you shape-up, change the way you wear your clothes or hair, or even your attitude towards people, you should always remember it will always be for your own benefit.

8. How much could I have?
I suppose in this case there is no such things on having things too much or too little, but it’s more on how badly you really need it. I’d like to have lots of money, no denying that, but the question is that how much are you willing to work for it?

9. What motivates me?
What motivates you? It’s an answer you have to find out for yourself. There are so many things that can make everyone happy, but to choose one of the may be the hardest part. It’s not like you can’t have one serving of your favorite food in a buffet and that’s it. Just try it piece by piece.

10. What Really Makes You Tick?
So? What really makes you tick? You can be just about anything you always wanted to be, but to realize that attaining something that may seem very difficult is already giving up before you even start that journey. Always remember, that self-improvement is not just about the physical or philosophical change you have to undergo, but it’s something that you really want.

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Self Development Techniques- To achieve any goal you desire

Welcome to our site, the following content is designed to help anyone who sincerely wants to help themselves develop new good habits which will improve the condition of their present life! Do you want more wealth? we got you covered, grow your business? we got you covered, more fun time? we got you covered, better relationships? we got you covered. God Almighty says, He will not change the condition of the man until the man changes what is in his heart, “your own condition”

What condition must be change?

You have the ability to change your MINDSET “your thinking,” your behavior, your habits!!

2 things holding you back from your dreams”

1) Emotional Issue related to subconscious

Various emotional issues are holding you back from achieving the life that you may want for yourself. They may be a result of fear anger anxiety grief sorrow sadness laziness cowardice and a host of derivatives extending there from. First you must begin to use your inner power of focusing which requires you to ask yourself important questions and then answer your questions. This will engage your conscious mind and set the platform for new habits and self motivation. Most important question first. What is my purpose for being created? Why was I created? You must answer these questions for your benefit. To point you in the right direction and motivate you, you must know that you are already a winner at this game called life because before you were conceived there were millions if not billions of sperm cells competing to impregnate your mother’s egg and you out of the countless cells won the title. Now pat yourself on the back then ask and answer your questions. What are you good at? That’s what really matters.

Now to deal with your emotional issues you have to find out what they are and where they come from. You now have the power to get that done. The most powerful and effective way to take care of these emotional issues is by following the example that God Almighty sent to his most beloved prophet and messenger. The prophet of God Almighty would supplicate to our Lord and say, O God Almighty, “Protect me from fear, anger, sadness, grief laziness and cowardice, and protect me from debt and being overpowered by men and their instrumentalilties.

Next, Ask yourself the questions and go search for the answers. You always have to go back to the beginning of your life and find out what you picked up along your journey until now. We hardly ever revisit issues we dealt with why we were young kids. You must seek out who you grew up with and around and how they affected your life and determine if that still affects you today. Ask yourself the questions how were my parents or guardians with money and finances? How were they around family and friends? What were there fears! Their strength and weaknesses? This is how you begin to define yourself and determine your emotional related issues. One of the best and easiest ways is to ask yourself, your family and friends who you grew up with or around.

Assignment. Make a list of all the questions (at least 10-20) you want and need to know about yourself, from your family and close friends. Ex. What was my mother /father, grandmother, great-grandparents like? How did they deal with life issues such as family money work health faith etc. Write or record all your answers on paper, in your memory or a device if needed. Then review all of your answers and pay attention to your life, your questions and answers closely for the next 7-21 days and then you will always continue to pay more close attention to your life and habits. This assignment should take care of the two things holding you back.

2) Habits related to subconsciousness from parents or people you grew up around.

An example of this subconscious behavior also referred to as genetics, is how a grandfather, who was a builder had a grandson who never met his grandfather, however the grandson grew up to be a builder as well. Also, everyone you come in contact with in your life has an effect you whether you know it or not! Learned behavior is real. Once you have completed the above assignment, you will be fully prepared to determine your learned and subconscious habits both good and bad, and probably where they all came from as well. When you become aware, find out or recognize the good habits, you should be thankful for them, cherish them, and continue those habits. When you become aware, find out and recognize the bad habits you have to write them down, make a mental note and then replace all of those habits with new exciting habits (your written goals).

2 things stopping you from going forward to achieve your dreams

1) Little to No written goals for long or short term.

The first main component responsible for stopping you from moving forward to achieve your dreams is the lack of writing down clearly defined goals. The reason this is so important because your conscious mind which carries out your everyday task (your reality), has no language to communicate with your subconscious mind. The only connection is a dream or vision (deep thoughts). So ask yourself how can my deepest thoughts and desires become your reality? The problem here is, How will you make your conscious mind see, read, practice, or act or carryout your thoughts and dreams. This is explained in technique #1.

2) Always wanting to do things your way!

The second component responsible for stopping you from going forward is you, you ego or whatever you want to call it. You always want to do everything your way. This is your biggest problem. You have to learn to strive for the goals that you set and don’t think it’s going to be a cake walk. God Almighty says, “that man shall have only what he strives for!” You will get what you want but not doing things your way. Your life is a part of God’s plan! You will be tried and tested so that you know for certain that God Almighty was the only one responsible for making your dream a reality, so you will have gratitude for Him.

Technique #1 Setting Goals For tomorrow

Why set goals? After you define your dreams, Setting written goal brings your dreams to your conscious mind so that it can begin to carryout daily actions which ultimately gets results.

The importance of Goal Setting? FOCUS!! Its like seeing vs. not seeing. You must write down goals and then make them crystal clear by rehearsing them. This is your platform for new habits. New habits have to be put in place to get rid of old habits. Making your life is different from just living it! Goal setting is like playing offense, you call the play and you get an opportunity to put points on the board.

Why get a focusing partner or coach? A focusing partner should always be utilized when attempting to carryout new habits. Your partner and you must call each other every other day or every week to stay motivated and accountable for your actions. This helps accomplish actions which lead to fulfillment of goals.
Assignment: Start making your life and planning for your new good habits. Make a list of 30 to 50 one year to three year goals. Begin with the words “I intend to …..” then just write what comes to your mind. When yo finished writing your goals go back over them and add more detail to the same goals. “Be more specific” and add a date or deadline for your goals. Do this two more times for a total of three revisions. Balance your goals with the following areas… Financial, Business/Work, Health, Relationships,Contribution, Personal, Vacation/Fun time.

Technique #2 Rehearsing Your Goals

What’s the purpose of rehearsing? To change

One of the most effective ways to rehearse is to use more of your senses. The more you use them, the more you retain. Their are five ways to reach the brain, your five senses. You must see your goals, you must write your goals you must speak your goals so you can hear your goals. Lastly you must ultimately memorize your goals! This is your best kept secret. Rehearsing is the act of careful examination, repetition- going over and over your goals until they reach your mind with understanding. This leads directly to memorization. Why is it important to memorize your goals.

Assignment: Read your list of goals to yourself “aloud” every day for the next 30 days and watch how much your life changes.

Technique #3 Memorizing Your Goals

What’s the point of memorizing your goals? Embedding them in your subconscious! Recall them at will and always remind yourself so you can carry out the action to achieve your crystal clear goal. Why do you think the four men who orchestrated and engineered the school system gave you a curriculum? Then made it mandatory for all children to attend every day for five days straight Monday to Friday? When you practice something everyday, you will memorize it. You will become an expert. It becomes reality, you have effectively embedded that goal or action in your subconscious mind and your conscious mind and you acted on it until it becomes second nature. That my dear friend is how you achieve every single goal you set out to get. That is striving! Do you spend that much time on your own goals, Your own life? Or are you trapped in these four men indoctrinating society? Working their jobs, sending your dear child to their schools, to continue in your footsteps always supporting someone else dreams and visions. Ask yourself do you want to break that hypnotic disease which was unleashed on the masses? Do you want to finally take control of your own life and the lives of your loved ones. Do you want to find your “Qadr” your powerful destiny given to you by you Lord God Almighty?

Man shall have only what he/she strives for!
Assignment: Take your top 7-10 goals and recite them often until you have memorized them.T

Your results will begin to speak for themselves. Staying focused when life brings its trials, hardships and test may destroy your motivation so we recommend the following:

  • Building a focus group of like minds, meet regularly.
  • Never fear investing on new products, new reading materials, new programs and different strategies. Its like buying a new car, house, clothes etc. It makes you happy, motivates you, gives you new ideas, opportunities, and keeps you going.